Is My Partner Toxic?
Wondering whether your partner is toxic rarely comes out of nowhere: there are usually specific messages that stuck with you, a nagging feeling that what they say doesn't match what they do, or a recent argument that left you with more questions than answers. Generic "is my relationship toxic?" quizzes ask you to answer from memory, still carrying the emotional weight of the moment. Here you can do something more concrete: analyze a real conversation with AI and see what signals actually show up in the text, not just in how you remember it.
Analyze my conversation for freeSigns to watch for
- Changes their story when you quote their own words back to them.
- Responds to a boundary you set with mockery, long silences, or a counterattack on a different topic.
- Swings between very affectionate messages and cold, cutting ones, with no way for you to predict which one's coming.
- Makes you feel responsible for their anger even when the message that triggered it was reasonable.
- Downplays how you feel ("you're overreacting," "you're too sensitive") instead of addressing what you said.
- Controls who you talk to, what you post, or how quickly you reply.
- Turns disproportionately sweet right after a tense episode, without acknowledging it happened.
Toxic Scanner reads the screenshot of your conversation and separates the overall tone from specific signals: manipulation patterns, breadcrumbing, avoidant or anxious attachment, and any positive signs that are there too. It doesn't replace your own judgment or a professional's, but it gives you something more objective than rereading the chat while anxious.
Analyze my conversation for freeFrequently asked questions
Can a conversation test tell me if my partner is toxic?
It can give you a guided reading of a specific screenshot: which patterns show up and how intense they are. It's not a diagnosis or a verdict on the person, but a way to make sense of what's already there in the text.
Do I need lots of screenshots for the analysis to make sense?
No, you can start with just one conversation. The more you analyze over time, the easier it is to see whether a pattern repeats or was a one-off.
Are my screenshots stored on a server?
No. Toxic Scanner doesn't store your screenshots — they're processed to generate the report and aren't kept afterward.
What should I do if the result shows high-risk signals?
Treat it as a hypothesis worth checking against the full context of your relationship. If you feel fear, pressure, or unsafe, put your safety first and reach out to a professional or someone you trust.